So blogs are for Happy Times, Happy news, Happy lives.
Never do you see much else around these parts.
BUT i am a lil unconventional at times and for some unknow reason feel the need to put this on my blog.
1-because i love and care about all my far away friends who only communicate through these blogs, and would care to know sad things about their lives as well.
2- It seems only fair to Chris, myself, and our friends that some things are known to avoid rumors and awkward run ins. So here it is in the nicest, least awkward way(insert sarcasm here) you could ever tell your friends tragic news.
Chris and I are no longer together.
We are on good terms and taking care of our puppies together.
It is BeSt for us.
I can't even imagine the weird judgements going through some of your minds right now. For one that we are divorced in the first place. For two cause im blogging about it!? But i dunno for the past few months i've been wanting to tell my family and friends, for support...? or i don't even know but now you know. I still want to keep in touch with you guys and felt the odd blog shame that i couldn't unless i was posting pics of my perfect lil married life.
So for all our friends /fam i'd still like to stay in touch and share life and friendship, maybe it will never be the same but i hope it can still be good. I will still get on here and update some of what is going on in my life since i have been going crazy not checking up on all of you! :)
love,
Laura
11 comments:
Oh Laura I love you! I too feel that blocs are there just to. Rag about and show off. I mean I do use mine for my journal or scrapbook. I have blogged aboutnhard tomes, sad times in my life, but yes for the most part it is the peachy stuff. I thank you for your bravery, honesty. I am so sorry and I hope you are doing ok. I can only imagine it is a hard time right now. I hope you domcontinue to blog, I for one love your blog. You crack me up. We all know life isn't perfect, mine is far from it. No judging here. Good luck with everything. Love ya!
Ok sorry for my crazy spelling and crazy sentences. I am typing on our iPad and it's hard!
My thoughts have been with you over the past few days. I hope that you are doing well and school is what you hoped it would be. You and Chris are WONDERFUL people and loved having you in our lives for the short time you were here. I hope that things will get better and both of you will be able to find happiness!
Laura-You are in my prayers girlie! i have missed reading your blog! I can't wait to hear about nursing school and stupid moms at the dr. office agian! YOu are a strong girl and only you know whats best for you! There is no shame in sharing about your life, weather good or bad, sometimes it just helps to get it out and write about it! Hugs and Kisses and i hope to see you at the Grammy party this year so we can catch up in person! We all love you and support you no matter what! xoxo
Hi Laura,
I guess its because we live on an island and are out of the loop on things, but I had no idea you and Chris broke up.
I'm sad to hear it just because you two are great people. I know its hard (my brother is going though a divorce right now), so my heart and thoughts are only the best for you and although we are far from you please let us know if you need anything.
You are a gorgeous, great, strong woman and please do keep blogging. I love reading what you have have to say (especially the bachelor//bachelorette tidbits). I love you girl!
Laura even though it is under unhappy circumstances I am still so glad to hear from you! That's what friends are for, to go through HARD and happy times together. I will be thinking about you, and I know you will make the best out of this sad situation. You are always so positive, and make the best out of everything. I love you, and YES I want to know what you are up to! :) Miss you!
I didn't even know about you and Chris until your FB email. I know that you must be feeling so many mixed emotions. But be happy, keep blogging, and dont worry about those who may judge you, bless their hearts for never having walked in your shoes . I think it's BRAVE for you to make this post and I think you are being very classy about things. Hang in there! I love you and hope that you are happy.
To be honest I didn't know Chris anyways so its totally OK with me if this turns into just Laura's blog... the adventures of returning to single life... gotta be crazy!
Lots of love,
Snapple;) (haha I just remembered you use to call me that lol)
Laura don't feel that way at all. If someone is judging you for that than why are you friends with them? Life doesn't always go how we plan it BUT the fact you guys are still friends is GREAT!!! And as far as the "I am so perfect, with the perfect hubby, baby and cute dog.. blah blah blah" It makes me sick, and so annoyed.. life isn't that perfect. BE HONEST - everyone has problems. Silly people aren't fooling anyone! :-) and just so you know - I am not a blogger who only blogs about happy stuff. :-) http://dirtandkimber.blogspot.com/2010/09/confessions-of-perfect-utah-county-mom.html
Oh my you guys all just made me cry!! I am SOOO happy and relieved you still love me :) sounds dumb i know but i was worried. It is so nice to hear that others have struggles and your prayers really all strengthen me. So THANK YOU! I will definitely return to blogging :) Missed yall soo much!
Ky i almost peed my pants at the Snapple! omg! hahaha amazing.
Cousins i will see you this Christmas! can't wait!
My far away friends--MIss you and send my LOVE!
Elish-you helped me MORE than you can ever know. i need to come visit. catch up. miss you and the ladies.
Kimber- i do love your blog ps b/c of the real life.
MWAH!
laura i'm so sorry to hear that but I hope that you are doing well. I love you and really hope to see you at the Grammy party in December! Blogs really are hard sometimes, well a lot of the time, its hard to look at people's sometimes and see how "perfect" their lives seem. Thanks for sharing, hope you are doing well, good luck with school and everything going on in your life. Love you!
Hey girl! I feel so bad I've been so bad at keeping in touch lately...preg sickness has really been getting to me! But justvwanted to say I love ya and it's really lame if people judge you!! I'm sorry you're having to go through this difficult time...if there is anything I can do let me know! Yo're a beautiful person don't worry about what anyone thinks. Ps I will prob see you soon. I need to bring Kam in for a checkup!! Xoxo
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